Am I worth waiting for ually? Tough time right now and I just need time. Am I worth the wait?

The man I have been with off and on for over 5 yrs. asked me to meet him in Arkansas while he is doing consulting work here. I had been going through a very, very difficult time emotionally with family issues. He says this is a great opportunity for us to start a new life and a fresh journey in our relationship. In other words, give it one more try. I have been here a week and am just not ready emotionally right now for a physical relationship with him. My emotions are numb due to other issues and I just need time. Time for some of my emotions to heal before adding anything on top of what I am dealing with right now. His response is its been a week and if I don't want to be intimate with him after being here a week than I do not care about him, I had no intention of rekindling our relationship, and just used him to finance my way here along with meals etc, etc He says I'm taking and not giving anything at all, I am crushed by this thoughtless demand that he has waited long enough for (one week). He goes as far as saying that he was the only one that would "take me in" and I should be way grateful and give him the he wants so I will not be out in the cold with no where to go. I am hundreds of miles from where I lived and even though he paid my way here, has no intentions of financing my way any where from here. Need help. what 2 do.