Girlfriend wont drink wine...?

The best thing that worked for my twins, is advice I go in the hospital. I would swaddle the baby, give him a pacifier,and sit in a chair. From there I would gently "swing" her back and forth. (not shake). While he was on his belly, in my hands. To calm them more I would "shhh" in their ear. I would try getting her to stay up more during the day and make sure its bright during day time and dark at night so she can know the difference. Good luck!